LESSON 1 - Never lose yourself to anyone

This is one lesson I personally cannot seem to keep up with. You will be quite surprised how difficult it is to lose yourself.

When I say lose yourself, I am talking about the great personality you had before any problem ever hit you.
You will be surprised to know that you will change in every turn in life. The harder the turn, the worst the change.

It will take somebody very close to you to actually tell you of this change. The best person to go to is your mother. Yes...............your mother!

I know this because my mother gave me the full run down on who I was and who I am now.
And you know what?...........................She was so right, that it scared me. I remembered that person I once was and I loved her to bits. So did my mother.

The Basic Truth - I made a promise to her and to myself that by writing my book, I will find her darling little girl again. Personally, I blame marriage! Its a too stressful job for both myself and my husband.

We were definately ready for marriage, don't get me wrong. It was the managing alone that really turned us around. God help us if we have to have children right now!

So moving on to todays lesson, try to take that turn slowly. The last thing you need is for somebody to tell you that you a bitter young women/man.